Armand and I go way back. Well, only like a year and a half or so, but he’s one of those people you meet and you can’t remember what life was like without them. As colleagues and during this interview, Armand kept me laughing with his fantastic sense of humor. Though he grew up in DC, his daring style destined him to end up in New York. Of my many male friends, Armand stands out as someone who can seriously bring something new and unexpected to the typical guy uniform. So when I needed to gender balance this blog, I knew Armand was my guy. Not only was this a fun interview, but Armand inspired me to get excited about those pieces in my closet that I rarely wear and give them another chance.
What is your favorite thing you are wearing today and why?
Definitely my shoes. [I’m wearing] old Kenneth Cole brown motorcycle boots that I actually picked up from a great outlet in Virginia years and years ago. I never thought they would last this long, but they have. They are not as traditional as most other motorcycle boots.
They still look brand new.
I got them repaired recently, because that’s what New York does to your shoes.
Is a professional environment really limiting for men in terms of expressing style?
It is in some ways. It depends on your style and how much you dislike monotony. There are ways to avoid the monotonous office uniform, which is normally a collared shirt and some form of pants…
Hopefully some pants. [laughs]
Skorts! Capris! It is difficult for men, but you can’t really do anything about it, so that’s where accessories really come in, like socks. One of my colleagues at work has really fun socks all the time. We might be dressed a little bit more conservatively but with the socks, it can bring some fun to your ankles.
When you’re shopping, what are you looking for?
I like black, grey, basically all neutral colors. Mainly black. So it can be from anywhere from H&M to a random cowboy Western store or [laughs] this place called Gothic Renaissance here in New York…
That sounds scandalous.
I know, right? But I gravitate towards those colors, and then deciding if it’s a statement piece or something I can wear everyday. Because black can be very basic, if it’s something a little unusual, I gravitate towards it.
How often do you shop?
I have to look at my [credit card] statement [laughs]. It’s hard in New York, especially when you pass by stores everyday, especially where my office is located. I typically go to a few stores once a week that I know always have deals or changing inventory. That way I know what’s out there and I can snap up something that I really want.
Do you have a shopping philosophy?
My friends always laugh when they are with me shopping. I’m more of a hunter and if it catches my eye, I’m like “mmm, I shouldn’t really be spending money,” and I am trying to force myself out of the store. But I’ll keep looking back at it like it’s a puppy dog and I’m feeling bad. I’ll walk all the way out of the exit of the store, and I’ll turn back and say “Actually I want to look at it once again.” If I want to go back to it two or three times, then I know definitely that I need it, and I want it, and I shouldn’t give it up. It beckons me like a siren. I’m like “I need it.” [laughs]
Is that impulsive?
It’s not impulsive at all. I don’t really leave stores with bags and bags – I normally only have one or two pieces. That’s kind of why I go every week almost, because things change and I don’t want everything. I don’t get the adrenaline like some shoppers get from carrying bags and having something that you’ve bought. It’s more so that I’m really excited to wear this.
What is your favorite thing in your closet right now?
Hands down, it is this black leather motorcycle jacket that my sister brought me from Argentina. She came back with a garment bag, and I was like “oh god.” I looked at the jacket and thought that nothing this amazing is going to fit me. And actually when I put it on, I was really hoping it would fit perfectly, and it did. She really did a good job. She said she got ten people – any guy on the street who looked kind of like my build – to put it on, literally.
Once something is in your closet, how long does it stay there?
I pride myself on this. I wear everything that I buy, and I have a little rotation depending on events. It will stay in my closet for a very long time. I’m feeling this early 90s look with old school Tommy Hilfiger t-shirts – grey with the big logo in the middle – and early 90s rounded sunglasses. I’m really feeling that look with a backwards cap and plaid tied around your waist. I’m really mad that I threw out some of that stuff when I was moving back in DC between apartments or moving up here to New York. I normally keep things for a very long time. I’m now sticking to that philosophy more as I’m finding that there are things that I really love and that I had but don’t have in my possession anymore. Things come back around in terms of style.
So you usually keep things around?
Isn’t that what all vintage stores are? Basically, your old closet that you threw away that you’re trying to reclaim?
Do you have any closet confessions?
I went to a discount chain store randomly in Illinois. I found this great pair [of pants] – it was when I was doing this 80s look at night – and it turned out to be way too Miami Vice. It was these bright neon highlighter yellow dress pants, but they were a little bit more baggy. I thought I could put a look together with them, but I realized that no shirt every goes with that neon of pants and there’s no place I could ever go to [wearing] it. So I actually ended up wearing it for Halloween. I couldn’t bear for it to be in my closet anymore. It had to come out to play. So I turned it into a pimp old school look with a fur coat. [laughs] It was a whole look with a fedora. So that was my one questionable purchase, though I didn’t spend a lot of money on it.
Was that the only time you’ve worn them?
I think so. I tried to wear them to the beach once rolled up, with white converse but…
You blinded everyone?
Yes, and even with a t-shirt over it was not a good look. Never again.
Thanks to Armand for giving up his coffee break to talk to me. I’m curious to know how often you shop: comment below or tweet @ThisIWear to share how frequently you hit the stores or browse online. A little lagniappe since New York City will indeed destroy every pair of shoes you own (because you just walk that much): If you’re in Greenwich Village, see Yakub Shoe Repair on Sullivan St. He will work miracles.